I just knew

"You wanna know why girls don’t wanna start a conversation first either by calling, texting or IM-ing with the guy that she likes? It’s because she doesn’t wanna seem too desperate. She’s afraid that if she starts the conversation first every single time, she might lose what she had or almost had with that guy. So that’s why she always just wait ‘til the guy talks to her first. It’s safer that way."